Repeated patterns keep us trapped. If we weren't good enough as a child, from our parents' standpoint, we find a lover who subconsciously has that same issue. We try to be a better lover and a better wife and then a better parent so we can fix that original issue, never knowing it was never our fault. We find different faces, different places but replay the same repeated patterns. Boss after boss, friend after friend, negative follows negative. It is time to change that process and be free.